Showing posts with label reflection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reflection. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

A good medicine tastes bitter.

This water reflection photo was captured in a golf court corner. A very small corner but I think it looks gorgeous when my car was about to pass by.

I love the reflected landscape. When I was a kid, my grandmom often told me that we are reflected by others.

People always like to hear nice words, meanwhile refuse to listen to the words pointing out their shortcomings. Moreover, some people refuse to confess their shortcomings.

I like to give compliments to people. Those are not sweet words, but to those merits that are obviously seen and need to be encouraged. I think everyone has flaw as well as distinct strength.

Not many people prefer to give compliments. Some people think giving compliments would reflect their own inadequacy. Some people jealous the strength they lack. I believe people will get improved and a step closer to the better goal when they hear compliments.

One of my team members always made mistake on whatever she did since she always made the fastest move and always wanted to be the first one who finished the task. It happened to be the outcome has bad result more often the the good result. When everyone got upset on her, I told her that her ability always reached out the fastest, somehow should leave the chance for others sometimes. She only listened to the part where she did fast job, thus she happily saves the chance for others to be the first doer. After she slows down her speed, the jobs assigned to her all went right.

Seeing others well signal ourselves.


Saturday, March 8, 2008

Seeing can not be all believed?!

Few days ago, I saw an Anthurium,
its cup is half filled by water, very beautiful.
Looking from right side there as if 3 Anthuriums, while from left side there were 2 Anthuriums.


Likewise, looking down from above there was only 1 Anthurium.


From different angles can see different shapes and reflections.

This makes me to recall what my physician friend said, "Seeing or hearing may not be the truth."


This physician friends of mine is practicing meditation. Every time we get together she always share some meditation concepts with us.

She always said," Seeing can not be all believed, hearing can not be all believed. and many things are two-faced. There are things and people that at the beginning you think they are good but turn out to be bad in the end, the truth will reveal at the end. Many things need to be consider carefully by ourselves and the truth will reveal at the end.

Indeed, many truths and facts are needed to take time to wait for the truth to reveal.

No matter what religion or superstition that it is believed in, we must let our own heart back to us, our heart will eventually see the truth gradually.