expect nothing

Few days ago, saw the blossom of these two flowers.

They bloom beautifully but will graduallly wither from tomorrow, brought back home in order
to keep their glorious blooming colors and shot for lasting forever in my favorite memory.

Simple is also beautiful! Sometimes, expect nothing, look what we can expect and don't ask much of something, simple is also beautiful :-)

Berries are sweet. Peaches are sour.

Berries are sweet. Peaches are sour, which has to taste with ice cream.

In our daily life, we also encourter sour, sweet, bitter and chille happings.

Have a sweet taste for ourself to reduce the bitter.

Have a colorful life for ourself to balance the emotion.

A physician friend told me " when you hesitate, don't do it! When you want to take a nap, just do it! Don't force yourself to get compliment from others. Cool down our mind and listen to what is really in ourself. "

I like these words " When we down, remember the happy time, when we're happy, don't get overjoy."

Absolute boyfriend

Watched an interesting drama, about a girl whos boyfriend is a robot. She expects her boyfriend to show up whenever she needs.

Just as her expectation, he picks her up after work everyday and brings her umbrella when it rains.

Just as her expectation while she was having trouble in work, he helped her to accomplish even put himself in injury. His name is Knight, meaning he is always there to protect her.

When she was cheated by her friends, he showed up and punished the bad man.
Although it's just a drama, it depicts the hope for a soulmate from a woman :-)

Don't know if it will be more difficult for woman to look for her prince charming since the expectation might get higher after watching this drama story.

If there is a robot for testing, I'd like to have one also :-) ~^.^~

Love requires a reason or not!?

Am fond of a song, which the lyrics was written, "Loves doesn't require a reason, knowing how to cherish is the key to have true love."

Apparently, other than kinship love, true love requires a reason, even just a petite reason.

Often I got confused will I love a person without a reason, or will anyone love me without any reason?

I like this "knowing how to cherish is the key to have true love".

Cherish comes by both side.

Slow the steps for heart to absorb

In the past, business trip had been a pressured, recently have learnt to slow the steps for heart to absorb.
Look slowly, eat slowly.

No matter where in which country, just put the heart to feel, there's always the beautiful scene.
In every country, the moment before sunrise is always magnificnt.

Was unable to adjust different types of food in different country, and now am tasting, accepting, and trying to like.
Always told myself to slow the steps for heart to absorb :-)

everyone has a story behide.

Watched a movie " Caramel". It's a nice movie about 6 women, 5 stories.

Each woman has it story, every family has a story behide.

Being happy is not so difficult.
Happiness comes from happy thinking and mind; however, sometimes when there is pressure from the work, sometimes used to think there woulden't have things to be so happy or joyful!

Gradually have learnt happiness is generated from happy mind even with a tiny event or object.

A little strawberry salad, a little world does bring happiness! :-)

Is it love or getting accustomed?

When lovers and married couples abide by each other for long time. Is it love or getting accustomed?

Often at some gatherings heard friends complain about their boyfriends or husbands, and in the meantime they could affectionately answered the phone from this someone who they have just complained a minute ago. This inconsistent behavior made them as if they are different person!

Likewise, used to see friend complained furiously about her husband, but once her husband showed up, she immediately told me how good her husband is and how good his family is. Her husband happily told me that his wife is a very lucky woman.

Still curious when one is complaining the better half behind, is it describing the love or anger?

If it is love, it should be complement and not complain.

When lovers and married couples abide by each other for long time, is it love or getting accustomed? Maybe both :-) !

Weekend & Rose tea

Always told myself to be strong, always told myself happiness comes from own mind.

Some apples, some little almonds, walnuts, a cup of tea, a little world does bring happiness!

It's not so diffiuclt to be happy, it all depends on a peaceul mind that thinking in.

Happy weekend to all my friends who come to my blog.

Life is a circle. look the other way

Life is a circle, where you begin is where you end.

Used to hear, Whether focus on the seedy and on unpleasant,

or on the positive and hopeful,

world will be defined by how to choose to look at it.

Can sidestep much of the unpleasantness of life simply by looking somewhere else.

Concentrate on the beautiful.

Happy Easter to everyone!

Gaining, also Losing.

Two years ago, was fanatically surfing on Internet. Besides from online news, fashion, everything can be found from Internet like apparels, food, living and transportation were all likely be viewed. Sometimes even lunch and dinner were dined in front of PC monitors.

Even takes a little time for internet before boarding in airport.

One day, while was chatting with a young chest physicians, saw his cellphone is a very old model, he could only use the most basic computer application. He said he doesn't have much time to use Internet.

From his confident brainy conversation, as well as from his healthy complexion, suddenly realize myself spending in front of PC everyday, skin color gets dark, neck and hand waist are suffering from pain...this physician smiled and said, nowadays people become more civilized after having computers, on the other hand there are more civilized diseases.

It is true. Counting the time spent on Internet, my life is loaded with more and more extraneous time :-)

Intenet is lovely, but there is also gaining and losing.

The feeling from far to near

Always there are different moods when the flight is taken,
at the beginning of last year often hurrily rushed to the hosipital directly after my plane landed.

During that time, had been afraid if it would be the last time could be able to see the dearest family member who fell sick in the hosipital.

In the end, heaven is the last resort.

Meanwhile, I need quiet place in my mind,

I stopped the other blog where I lost motivation to continue writing, as well as the inappropriate timing to bring my own sadness to blogger friends during New Year holidays.

Time flees, a year passed, still every time when the plane takes off, it always reminds me my family member.

Many things are recalled and there is the feeling of from far to near.

Seeing can not be all believed?!

Few days ago, I saw an Anthurium,
its cup is half filled by water, very beautiful.
Looking from right side there as if 3 Anthuriums, while from left side there were 2 Anthuriums.

Likewise, looking down from above there was only 1 Anthurium.

From different angles can see different shapes and reflections.

This makes me to recall what my physician friend said, "Seeing or hearing may not be the truth."

This physician friends of mine is practicing meditation. Every time we get together she always share some meditation concepts with us.

She always said," Seeing can not be all believed, hearing can not be all believed. and many things are two-faced. There are things and people that at the beginning you think they are good but turn out to be bad in the end, the truth will reveal at the end. Many things need to be consider carefully by ourselves and the truth will reveal at the end.

Indeed, many truths and facts are needed to take time to wait for the truth to reveal.

No matter what religion or superstition that it is believed in, we must let our own heart back to us, our heart will eventually see the truth gradually.